Pictures by Prime photography

Before I kick start this post. Let me just say I have missed you guys loads. I’m so happy that I get to do this again guys. And many thanks for the overwhelming visit to the blog. I feel so excited that you still made a point to visit this space of ours.

For those of you who continued to mail and ask if I was OK. Many thanks. I guess you now see why I kept away from posting any posts. My apologies to those who have been trying to comment too, but now you can do that as many times as you wish, share and spread the love:-).













Now, we’ve all been through those times when we felt no love coming our way or we weren’t good enough. At least I know I have. But as years go by and maturity comes in, you start to realize that it all starts with you; how you feel as a person and the energy that you share among st the people around you.

Practicing self-love is one of the best decisions one could make. I love how the bible puts it, ‘Love of all gifts is the greatest,’ and it goes ahead to say; ‘love your neighbor as you love yourself. Implying that you first need to have love for yourself in order for you to give it away to other. And not forgetting that we are all wonderfully and fearfully made :-).2016-06-19-17-13-25-151

Another thing that I think speaks of self-love and positive vibes is the new thisisessforvivo collection. Which more or less inspired today’s post. And let me just caution you guys, I’m crushing on this line so be sure to see more posts inspired by Vivo outfits.

I also thought it will be nice to share my personal guidelines to self-love. So do enjoy and please do feel free to share more in the comment box :-).


Comfort Zone.

You need to step out of the comfort zone and try new things. Normal is always boring but change is challenging. Most of us don’t like change and the process itself but we are so ready for the end results. It doesn’t work that way. Being comfortable is never good enough. Try something different, something challenging. I do understand that we are all afraid of failure but fear shouldn’t be our potion.

Unhealthy Relationships.

Don’t get me wrong friend but surround yourself with people who will build you and not destroy, better you, encourage you and challenge you. Positive people who love life and enjoy leaving it will definitely make you love life more and enjoy it :-).

Reading Books.

On this one, I have to laugh at myself because ever since I graduated from Campus reading books has been the hardest thing ever. I still can’t explain what went wrong and where. So if you guys think that you are alone in the struggle, you are not. I’m currently reading Smart women finish rich.


Your appearance is a demonstration of your personality and your character. Your skin is  meant to last you for a lifetime so take care of it. Know your body and what will work on you it terms of clothes. Always remember that we are all different and what may work for someone else does not necessarily mean it will work on you. Same goes to beauty products. Find what works for you, what will make you feel comfortable and avoid being swayed by trends. If you don’t feel comfortable in red lips then don’t do it because everyone else is doing it. Be your own kind of different.

Do what makes you happy.

If travelling makes you happy do it. If you are a series junkie then series away love. If you are a shopaholic don’t just shop for the sake of it. What I’m trying to say is just do what will make you glow with happiness and joy that comes from within.




Stay warm love XXX.

Shoes – Same here

Bag – H&M

Fringe skirt – thisisessforvivo collection

Top –  Same here

Jewelry –  Mr.P S.A.

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  1. Guuuurrrlll, where you been?? I had missed you loads and I tried commenting and there were issues but am glad all is well. This post about self love is very inspirational and amazing. You are slaying the look, that skirt makes you look like a million bucks!

  2. Oooh my days Elle!
    What a lovely post! This has to be one of my faces so far! So well written I must say! Self love is the best thing one can have! And being your own kind of beautiful is one thing that I totally embrace! Love your positive energy and the way you support other bloggers! You are a very big inspiration to me! God bless you so much love

  3. You also did a good job with the fringe skirt.Love it.

  4. Welcome back Elle,lovely post.As love is the greatest commandment of them all,i totally agree with self love first before spreading that same abundant love to the next person.You look amazing

  5. Wow! The self-love topic is just awesome. You know people don’t realize that nobody will love more than you love yourself. Loving self is also vital to relating well and loving others as well.

  6. sasha

    I love fringe! You look fab!!


  7. Congrats on your new blog site. One can tell that you have worked hard on revamping it.

  8. its a great work, you look great.

  9. Loving this outfit….awesome read….glad you are back

  10. FINALLYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!Feeeeeewks!!!!! You look absolutely stunning…. Sharon’s collection is absolutely amazing….. The blog’s new face is just the one!!!! Welcome back hun…… Cant wait for more :*

  11. Wow! First of all, thank you for resuming and secondly, Love the look and the smile makes the look so special and uniquely you.

  12. God knows how much I have waited for this post..You look pretty!I love the skirt
    Great to have you back and I totally love the new blog look..


  13. Such a Beauty!!
    You look stunning hun.


  14. Looking very beautiful my dear. I do agree about loving ourselves as a start. In love with your stilettos too!


    Is it safe to say it’s a fringe season…?
    You are nailing this look and welcome back.


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